- The UK-based ‘Our Story, Our Song’ conference, which started 10 years ago, is now the annual Sisterhood conference attended by 150 – 200 women from all over the United Kingdom (UK).
- This conference led to the Newbold Sisterhood, which is focused on women in Newbold Church, encouraging them to lean in, connect and flourish within their community and beyond.
3 December 2020 | From tedNEWS (by Judith Makaniankhondo Nyirenda)- The Newbold Sisterhood celebrated its 10th-year anniversary on Saturday, November 14, 2020, by leading a special online service at Newbold Church based in Berkshire, England. The Newbold Sisterhood is the Women’s Ministry department of Newbold Church and reaches the women in the church as well as the wider community.
This service was an opportunity to remember what The Sisterhood has achieved over the years and see how it is looking to the future holding on to God in times changed. Focusing on the theme of ‘What’s in your hand?’, the Newbold Sisterhood’s leader and Newbold Church elder, Eileen Bečejac, preached a moving sermon, encouraging everyone to use what’s in their hand even in this time of the pandemic.
“When I felt God was calling me to hold a women’s event, all I had was time in my hands, and I must admit I thought it would just be a one-off event. In fact, I was too scared to call it an event; I called it a gathering,” said Bečejac.
Ten years ago, along with a small group of women, Bečejac started the ‘Our Story, Our Song’ conference, which has now become the annual Sisterhood conference attended by 150 – 200 women from all over the UK. This was also the beginning of The Newbold Sisterhood – it was the birth of a place which encourages women in the church to lean in, connect and flourish within their community and beyond.
The ‘Our Story, Our Song’ conference is a safe place where women share stories without feeling judged and have, in turn, been able to inspire other women. Due to the lockdown, this year’s conference could not take place. Instead the Sisterhood had this special program as part of the Newbold Church Online Sabbath Worship, and it saw many Sisterhood members taking part.
Earlier that day, the program began with a Zoom Sabbath school lesson led by Johannie Gungadoo. The Sisterhood holds Sabbath School twice a month – the 2nd and 4th Saturdays of every month. The rest of the program was broadcast via the Newbold Church website and social media platforms, Facebook and YouTube.
A photo collage of fond memories of the previous nine years of the conferences gently led the viewers into the program. Led by 18-year-old Elisabeth Bally, the worship service also captured tributes of Sisterhood members from near and far. All the way from Cornwall, Jena (one of the speakers at the very first conference in November 2011) and her husband, Steven Hulbert, who have been part of the worship team for every ‘Our Story, Our Song’ conference, shared a song ‘The Blessing’ – a pronouncement of God’s blessings on everyone especially in this time of the pandemic. This song complemented all the hymns sang by the worship team which lifted high the name and power of God and the friendship we have in His son, Jesus.
This was followed by an amazing video tribute of many women sharing their favourite memories of Sisterhood events and what the Sisterhood means to them. It was heart-warming to see many Sisterhood members who now live in other countries and still feel that they are part of The Newbold Sisterhood, such as Duduzile Makgathu in South Africa, Gabrielle Zemlich and Lara Dimitriou in Australia, and former Newbold Church Pastor Kirsten Øster-Lundqvist in New Zealand. Pastor Øster-Lundqvist is known to have planted the original seed of sisterhood many years ago.
The resounding words that stood out from the rest of the women in the tribute video were love, belonging, non-judgemental, support, chosen, support system, welcoming, meaningful friendships, amazing place, meeting people from all over the world, authenticity, nurturing, cared, acceptance, celebrated, cherished, singing, dancing, creativity, laughs, giggles, delicious food, sharing joy, socialising, playing games, meaningful talks, being understood, sharing stories, encouraged, uplifting, praying together, worship, leaning on God, surrendering to God, beauty, endurance, safe space, good spirit and sense of humour.
University student Gabriella Silvestre-Lloyd shared that, “It has always been nice to see older women supporting each other.”
Former Newbold College lecturer Barbara Abrahamian said, “The power of sharing our stories allows us to name issues, seek forgiveness, look for solutions, add support and encouragement.”
Evident through the service, The Newbold Sisterhood has been a place where women have brought what has been in their hands, and the little they have brought has multiplied and grown and as a result has made the Sisterhood a place where women feel supported and encouraged.
Drawing from the story of the widow in 2 Kings 4:1-7 who only had one jar of oil left and experienced the miracle of God’s multiplying the little that she had, Bečejac urged everyone to consider using what is in their hands.
Bečejac also celebrated and commended women from the Sisterhood who are currently reaching out to others through their ministries, social media platforms and professional expertise. The service ended with thanksgiving as Bečejac thanked all the people that have made each and every event a success and also the people who had worked so hard to make this online program a success.
Throughout the service, Bečejac extended an invitation to everyone who desires to join the Sisterhood, “You can join by simply being a woman between the ages of 15 – 100 who wants to lean in, connect, and flourish.”
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